Why these Letters


A Warm Welcome!


My name is Stella and I have two letters especially for you …

Dear Reader

Have you wondered about the next generation and the leaders of tomorrow? I am pretty sure you have. Every generation has that fear, and still the world goes on and improves by the day.

Now I am sure you are curious about me and why did I choose to write these Letters to my Granddaughter?

When situations occur in ignorance, and misunderstandings in relationships happen, in particular if there is better way, it is heartbreaking.

Not always easy, when the general thinking is, what do old people know, and push them aside.

Guiding young people with letters and giving alternative ways to overcome life’s challenges is the motivation.

Assist to help find who they are, what they want and where they want to go. At the same time give perspective on how easy a happy and successful life can be.

Having healthy relationships with yourself and your loved ones are key. Do you really know who you are, most of all, what do you want to achieve in life? What will your lifestyle be?  Become the best You, and realize you might have to change habits to be successful.

Knowing more about the behaviour of men and women in love. How to select a partner for a  relationship that will last forever and ever is on the table.

Assisting with old school guidance, to become successful and happy, talk about topics never discussed at home. Chock-a-block full of ways to find your way through the maze with sometimes alternative options.

My name is Stella and as a teacher, my concern and sympathy lie with the slow and lost ones. All the focus is normally on the top achievers.

Growing up as an only child, generosity and assisting others in need, was a lifestyle. Therefore the example set by my dear parents helping and caring for others is in my genes.

Most importantly with this living experience, I easily see the relationship mistakes my granddaughter makes, mostly out of ignorance. Above all being, at the vulnerable stubborn stage it is hard to give advice. At long last, the idea of the letters was born.

With these letters, a central-based information foundation is created. Assisting the young adults and leaders of the future on multi-levels.

Addressing most aspects of life from lifestyle, self-development, finding who you are and subsequently the most important topic, loving relationships.

Developing successful personality habits, preparing for a bright future, a long term relationship and how to be a good friend.

Having Emotional Intelligence to make the best decisions as a leader is crucial, what it is, and how to have Integrity?

These letters in Guidance with Granny are certainly not in any way professional advice. It is a reflection of my own experiences and what I was taught, securing it in these letters. She will need some of this later, and I might not be around to tell her.

Therefore, forwarding practical experiences in Letters to my Granddaughter, to my dearest only granddaughter Thinette, and those who read the letters.

Finally, enjoy a bit of nostalgia and habits of days gone by, some long forgotten. I would love to hear from you, your opinions or comments. It will be very interesting!

Kind regards


p/s The other letter is about our Family Affair … not what you think!