Be Kind to Others

Dear Thinette   Being kind is a positive attitude, my dear, subsequently it helds many benefits. To be kind to others, is a choice you make. It is a mindset that spontaneously triggers certain behaviour. When last have you heard someone say  “Oh thank you very much, it was so …

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Agree to Disagree and not Argue

Dear Thinette,   Agree to disagree and not argue is a win-win strategy. It saves your dignity and creates harmony. There was a video clip, of family members fighting in the street, on the Internet. Shouting, pulling hair and pointing fingers. The whole neighbourhood came out to see what was …

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Relationships and Health

Dear Thinette,   Did you know that the quality of a relationship has an influence on your health my girl? Your  relationships and health are so closely related. Stress plays a huge role, and if any of your relationships are under stress, it has a negative effect on your health. …

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What is Love Romance and Intimacy

Dear Thinette, What have love, romance and intimacy to do with each other? They are all elements of the ultimate relationship. They have all profound different meanings, but a combination of them all creates a perfect harmony, my dear. Not everybody is blessed with an intimate relationship. Let’s find out …

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Get Your Ex Back

Dear Thinette Sure there will be ways to get your ex back, my dear but we have to make sure, if that is what you really want. So sorry this is making you so unhappy. Let us spend some time and find what has happened, name the good times and …

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Fall In Love Stay In Love

Dearest Thinette   When falling in love, you instinctively want to shower him with all your attention. Most women love and care for him in obsession and it is not a good idea. Men feel smothered when this happens. It is too overpowering and could mean the end of a …

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