My dear Thinette
Do you know the signs and what it means to be happy in love, my dear? There are specific signs in a relationship or person to make sure you will be happy in love?
It happens with the one you are dating or out of the blue, my dear. It is a special person and has a way to grow slowly and over time. Physical attraction happens in the blink of an eye but can fade very quickly. Everlasting love is more than skin deep and takes time.
Happy in Love.
Know the Values and Qualities of a Man
The first step is to know what the man’s values are, his character and his vision. Know if they are the same as yours. In contrast, it is not all about physical attraction alone, my dear. It is the same for a man, he should know what a woman wants.
This insight can only be obtained over some time with natural behaviour. You have to be sure of what you are looking for in a man. Which behaviours are important to you, therefore not negotiable.
Happiness and Love
It is hard to describe the feelings of joy and happiness when a man is honest and sincere with you. Who doesn’t want to have the happy cherished feeling of being loved by someone? Someone who truly loves you for who you are? The warmth that melts your heart when you hear his voice or the touch of his hand.
Trusting him comes after he has earned your respect. Therefore, make sure his actions follow his words, my dear, it is so important.
What do Happiness and Love mean to you? How would you describe authentic happiness and authentic love? Do you think you have found it yet?
When you experience it, first of all, you will look at the world differently and your whole perspective change. With it, you will always have a song in your heart and stars in your eyes.
10 Signs to be Happily in Love.
It is true for men as well as women.
You are so proud of him, who he is, what he does and his behaviour.
If you feel excited and overjoyed when you see his name appear on your phone.
Your heart skips a beat when you hear his voice.
You can not keep your eyes off him.
He is on your mind day and night. When thinking of him your heartaches.
His happiness comes first. Everything you do is with him on your mind.
Being more open and sharing more intimate things with him, and in addition, he will do the same. Earning each other trust is primary.
Feel safe and secure with him, and most of all you will trust him with your life.
You have to have that warm happy feeling when around him and want to be with him all the time.
Have Respect, Appreciate, Adore and Desire for him.
When all of these points cannot be marked, my dear, Mr Right has not arrived yet.
It will cause lots of sadness and trouble if you pursue a relationship that is not meant to be.
Discuss and make sure of the fact, that a long term commitment, is what you both want. If not, do not get serious it will cause much sadness and is not worthwhile pursuing.
Relax, just enjoy the company if you want, until you meet the right guy, and it is time to move on.
You will never have happiness if you try to change someone or force a relationship. It has to happen naturally. Leave that forever space in your heart empty for The Special One.
Timing has a lot to do with finding the right one. I believe you will meet the man of your dreams after you have met your short term goals.
You will not be ready for a true meaningful commitment if you have not achieved those goals yet. Experience has a lot to do with it. The same applies to him too.
Your Knight in shining Armour will come looking for you when he has achieved his goals and are ready to commit. He will get serious when no loose ends are hanging around.
It will be an unexpected, exciting moment of surprise when you met.
Happy in Love.
Have short term goals, knowing where you want to be or what you want to achieve before you settle down. Maybe you want to go backpacking through Europe or do an Ocean swimming marathon before you commit forever. It is the experiences you gain that makes you more mature and ready.
Start working towards it my darling. The sooner you met that goal the sooner you will be ready, not a moment before.
Having goals and achieving them, most certainly early in your life, is the only way to have personal growth. You have to reach a certain level of maturity to have meaningful relationships.
As I said before, experience is key to being able to “live happily ever after”. Don’t sit back waste your time and stay a child forever. Put your head down, get busy and grow as an individual, my dear.
Having met your Prince, you might want to impress him by looking your best as you think. Most men would like you to be their natural self. Be natural, be just as you are, he prefers less makeup, no layers and layers of foundation, artificial nails, eyelashes or hair extensions.
Running his fingers through your hair, kissing you without getting blemishes and not risking any injury when you touch him, is what he desires. Keep it simple and leave all those extras for your girl’s night out.
Never be too serious, always be playful and fun to be around, learn to play the flirting game. The way you make him feel when you are around is very important, my dear, it is the deciding factor for him. Make it lighthearted and fun with lots of laughter.
If there is a more serious matter to discuss, it is wise to make an appointment with him.
Making him feel loved and special will trigger the switch in his brain and he cannot live without you. Giving him the respect he deserves and telling him, is an important cornerstone to a happy unique relationship.
If you are sure he is the man for you, only then do you utter these words that will make him realise you are the one for him too. Tell him how much you Love and Respect him. How much you appreciate him for the person he is and how much you Adore him.
Put your arms around him, look him in the eye, tell him and seal it with a kiss. Only do this to your very special man and not to every Tom, Dick and Harry.
This is very serious and important, mean what you say and know the reasons why. Never say it just for the sake of saying it.
Happy in Love.
How to Keep His Attention and Devotion
Romance and Obsession are the way a woman love, and Fun and Sex are the way a man love. Give a man what he desires and you will have a faithful man, not interested in other women.
Remember, he will still look and enjoy other beautiful women.
Enjoy watching her with him, commenting on how beautiful her body or legs are. It will make him realise you feel secure and happy.
That is in a man’s nature, accept it and enjoy it with him.
He will be open with you and, not hide anything. Be that special woman he has chosen to love and have fun with. Soon you will earn his trust and be The One. He will share everything with you and will become obsessed with you.
… and this my dear are the things to pay attention to when looking for happiness. Be patient and it will come to you when you are ready!
Love you lots