Secret Language Of Relationships

Dear Thinette

know how to get your guy . Minette


Secret Language Of Relationships

The Secret Language of Relationships is the undercurrent of subtle behaviour that determines and creates your happiness. Focussing your attention and devotion to your loved one secures a healthy relationship. By making them happy you secure yours.

Your biggest challenge is to unmask the person in front of you, my dear and see who is behind that mask and what are their intentions. The Secret Language of relationships can only be understood when both partners are true to themselves.

It is wise to always be aware of what someone does or says. Observe how they act and react, their daily habits will tell you who they are.

Therefore, it is important to stay true to yourself. No matter what, never pretend. It is one of the secrets of a successful relationship. Stay Who You are, and never change.

Total honesty is one of the secrets of a happy relationship.

Never try to change another person to your needs and wants. If you don’t like what you see and hear it will not be a good match. Rather end the friendship and move on.

Secret Language Of Relationships

How can I help you


Those pillars of a relationship that gives it a strong foundation are something every couple should know and have. A good and happy relationship takes a lot of dedication and hard work to be perfect.

Love and a committed relationship are not a destination, my dear but only the beginning of a lifelong journey together.

The CORNERSTONES to a healthy, committed, loving, long-lasting, intimate relationship are

~ RESPECT Accept the person for who he or she is. Seek to understand the person. Be kind to one another. Accept there will be differences and settle them with compassion. Apologise when at fault.

~ APPRECIATION  Value your partner. See all the small things they do and appreciate them with a kiss and a hug. Do something special for your partner every day. Be grateful for what they do, by saying thank you every time.

~ TRUST   Trust is one of the major contributors to a relationship. Without it, there is no relationship.  Be open with no secrets.  Communicate effectively. Honour your commitments. Be vulnerable.

~ HONESTY  Make your actions match your words. Know yourself and your intentions.  Be sincere in all you do. Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

ADORATION and DESIRE are the other two pillars supporting the intimacy behind closed doors, making it perfect. Tell him and show him how much you adore and desire him. Show him he is the only one for you. Keep your love life exciting, fun and fresh.

Happiness In A Nutshell

● A Woman loves Commitment and Romance. She wants to feel SECURE, LOVED, HAPPY and SPECIAL in a relationship. Woman wants OBSESSION, DEVOTION and INTIMACY.

● To a Man, love means FUN TIME, TRUST, SEX and EXCITEMENT with the woman of his choice, but he wants to feel SAFE, HAPPY, FREE and SECURE around you. A man wants RESPECT, APPRECIATION and ADMIRATION.

Secret Language of Relationships

What You Should Do

Go out and make friends and have fun. Try to meet as many men as possible, watch, listen and observe. When you meet someone special, how does he make you feel? Does he tick the boxes you have set?

Secret Language Of Relationships.. Hands of many friends one on top of the other declaring good close friendship


Secret Language Of Relationships

How does he make you feel?

  • Making you feel happy and secure.

  •  Accept yourself for who you are

  •  Want to be around him all the time

  •  Feel so lucky to have him in your life

  •  Think of him all the time from opening your eyes in the morning until you close them at night.

Mmmmm then he might be the one, my dear!

Take your Time

Be elusive and do not become too serious too soon, my dear. Prince Harry and Megan’s marriage is a clear example. He did not know her well enough to see she is so manipulative and a narcissist.

Make an informed decision that will last for the rest of your life. To meet Mr Right, make sure to do it with an open mind but not open legs, my love. Getting intimate too soon might attract the wrong guy for the wrong reasons.

Secret Language Of Relationships


Important to know is that a happy relationship has many little secrets. To have a successful long-lasting relationship, pay attention to the behaviour of the other person. Learn new tricks and skills to keep the relationship alive and exciting.

Everybody loves differently, some flourish on spoken words other loves to touch hug and kiss, gifts does it for some and to do favours is another way to show your love to someone. Find your way of loving.

It is good to pay attention, even more so, it will help you realize and know the secret language of a happy partnership.

Love you lots

Gran Stella

Gran Estelle

Be a Fabulous, Feisty and Fearless Lady


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