Dear Thinette
What is the Way to Success
What will my future look like Gran? How will I achieve my dreams? Let’s think about it, my dear. The bigger your dreams, the more strategies you will have to have in place for success. That will consequently mean planning, more training and knowledge, having better skills, and a stronger character to create your success. What is the Way to Success?
Strategies for Success Is
How to Create them
The Way To Go
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Selecting a mission is the first step. What is it you want to do? Select a career that is in demand and still be there in the next 20 years. The service industry is a good one.
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Ask Why you want to pursue this? Find your mission, and believe in yourself that you can do it.
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Next is the blueprint, The Plan. Your plan of action. What to do and how to do it to reach your goals.
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The solid Foundation is next. Get yourself ready to learn all there is to learn and more. Invest in yourself, and be prepared to pay if you want to learn more.
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Enlist the best training you can afford and become an authority in your field. If there is no money for studies, do not use that as an excuse. Find a job and most importantly, save every cent to get what you want, many successful people started with nothing.
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Don’t let failure stand in your way, just do it again! See it as a lesson learned and there is a better way of doing it.
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Start building your Empire, brick by brick and step by step. Never stop learning and always apply what you learn.
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Be committed and do what you have planned with determination.
It is best to make a decision that will last a lifetime. All success is built with desire and determination. Have the mindset to burn the bridges behind you and the only way, is the way forward.
For that reason, so many young adults take a year called a Gap Year. Cut loose from childhood, clear your mind. Make the transition into adulthood, easier to decide what your future will be. Some select a few options, do some temporary work at each, therefore be certain of what you want.
What is the Way to Success
The Four Cornerstones
It is wise to make sure having the right mindset, attitude and the
ultimate four cornerstones are in place.
Desire, to make your dream come true.
Determination is to be persistent.
Dedication, to learning more.
Discipline, to keep going until you reach success.
Search and research to be able to make the best-informed decisions you can. Take time and make sure to build a good future, and I mean better than the rest. Become an authority.
The whole wide world is waiting with lots of opportunities. You have a new serious adventure on hand because finding the best strategies is of utmost importance.
Success and best of all, happiness is depending on your choices. Choose wisely and go and get it, my dear. Approach this phase of your life, very serious, because all your success depends on this.
Effect of the Past
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Growing up, you were part of a family, therefore being exposed to certain rules and values. This behaviour had a huge impact on who you are. Now it is time to find your way and set your standards.
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Families tend to have family traditions, some are good and some are not so good. All I know is, that when it is a result, of restricting your thoughts and mind, it is not good.
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It is also part of a system from schools and churches, for instance, to manipulate people in a subtle way to fit into a social pattern. Walking the streets like obedient faceless ghosts, subsequently, too afraid to do or say something out of the ordinary.
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Coming of age, entering this new phase you, have to parent and guide your own life now. No one taught you how to, therefore, the easiest way is to follow what you have learned and seen at home, repeating the same pattern.
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The biggest influence in anyone’s life is cultural and family habits. Some of these habits form part of a control system for generations, which keeps you from being who you want to be. You get taught not to think for yourself by the system.
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Being strict, with the do-as-I-say attitude, was the norm when our generation grew up therefore so many adults are unhappy because of that attitude, resulting in an inferiority complex.
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In the past it might have worked, but most definitely not with the Millennium kids. Knowledge is the key, and above all, your own strong opinions. Select and find your values and habit pattern.
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Love yourself and build a strong relationship with your inner self. You have become a different person, most of all, you have your vision and opinion.
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To build the foundation of your future of choice, first of all, to guide you to find your way, is very important.
What is the Way to Success
New Attitude
Let’s sweep your mind a clean slate my dear, in fact, just keep the good manners, and most of all, the integrity you have learned at home.
Break loose, but, stay the loving family member, and become your confident person, without judgement. Every generation has to change and adapt for survival, therefore, your parents went through the same process their parents years ago, don’t feel alone in your struggle.
This picture shows you how to be different. Walk away from the flock of sheep, and best of all, become unique and not be one with the rest and be a sheeple.
Start building your basis on knowledge and experience, my darling. I can not stress that enough! Be specific and name your destination, furthermore, what are your goals and how do you want to achieve them.
Very important to have a timeline, putting a date when you will achieve each goal.
Begin At The Goal Post
Why do I work?
Very important my dear, where do you see yourself in forty years, above all, when and where and how will you wish to retire? I know I know … you are not thinking about that now, especially at this stage of your life, but you should.
Did you know, that the main purpose of you getting a job and working all your life is to secure a good retirement plan?
No one realises or even thinks of it in that way.
How would you hope to spend your life at my age? 
Living a financially carefree happy life, for instance having enough money to live your dream comfortably. In contrast, you might be living in someone’s backyard waiting for handouts?
Now is the time to think and evidently, start planning.
What is the Way to Success
I DARE YOU TO DREAM BIG
WHATEVER THE MIND OF MAN CAN CONCEIVE AND BELIEVE … IT CAN ACHIEVE! [Napoleon Hill]
If you can think of it, most certainly it can be done!
Great granddad Willie always said, “No problem is ever too big. All problems can be solved, no matter how difficult the obstacle, there is always a way out, and a silver lining.”
Analyse any task or problem, first of all, break it up into sections and start solving it step by step.
Think out the Box or Around it.
How to dream big
Think of all the things you would like to achieve, even how impossible it sounds.
Your Possible Destinations.
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You will be in the Mediterranean on your yacht with friends.
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Travelling in luxury around the world, furthermore, visit all the countries you want.
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To live in the mansion of your dreams, in addition, to driving a supercar.
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Maybe you anticipate having it all, therefore, your planning should be accordingly. Give it your all, and plan diligently.
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Anything and everything in life is possible but, there are certain disciplines and conditions to achieve it.
What is the Way to Success
Set goals and achieve your dreams.
• Do some detailed planning
• The four D‘s are essential
Is desire big enough to get what you want? First of all, find the answers to the WHY? Ask it the same question a minimum of three times, later you can go more until you come full circle.
Have the Desire, Discipline and Determination to achieve it, most importantly, Dedication holds the key.
Having the correct mindset as well as, perseverance is absolutely important.
Recognition for your achievements
Give yourself credit for all your achievements and stay motivated.
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To get the recognition you have to become an expert in your field of knowledge and have experience, darling Thinette. Search, research, learn and train relentlessly to have the ability to be an expert and an authority.
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Very wise to apply the knowledge you gained and use it in experiences on your way.
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Therefore, never stop reading, make it your mission to become an authority with the best skills. You will earn trust and respect with knowledge and experience.
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Give yourself credit for all your achievements
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Never be forward with your knowledge.
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Listen and Observe.
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Always be the last to speak.
